We live in a society that profits from telling young girls that they are not enough. Not pretty enough, not skinny enough and the list goes on… The insecurities are planted in you without you realizing that subconsciously some how you start seeking validation externally. Am I pretty enough if I’m not told by a man? After all some how it was planted in me my purpose to be born was to be someone’s wife and I might not get to be if I didn’t look a certain way. Somewhere along the way you realize you never learned to validate yourself, what is self love? I only thought I was worth something if I was getting validated by a man. The path to self love is a slippery one especially when you don’t look like the mold the world wanted you to fit in. Learning to validate myself has been a journey and it all came back to self love, falling in love with my self and the parts about me that are special to me, that make me unique. Taking a step back and showing up exactly as you are. Learning to love yourself by taking care of yourself for yourself. Stopping the comparison spiral and realizing that we are all like beautiful snowflakes - the same but different. -Ravneet